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Neural Foundry's avatar

Really sharp observation about that asymetry. The Child Find comparison hits hard. What strikes me tho is that this whole situtation might also reflect deeper anxieties about meritocracy itself. Schools can comfortably support struggling kids because it feels egalitarian, but openly accelerating bright students feels elitist. The irony is that holding back advanced kids probably creates more inequality down the line, since only families with resources can navigate the gatekeeping or afford alternatives.

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This rings incredibly true for us. My son attends one of the “best” private schools in south Florida that markets itself as elite, yet when I provided the school the results of objective psychological and academic testing, asking them to support my son academically in the same way they support students falling behind, I was met with awe. I was made to feel embarrassed and disgraced for asking an “elite” school to support my son in exactly the ways in which they market themselves. My point is that regardless of how much you pay ($40k/yr in our case) and how these schools market themselves, it’s very clear after four years of enduring this that they actually frown greatly on differentiation, as though merely being selected for admission to this elite school is somehow enough to give students what they need. For this reason, we are leaving the school, and I will be homeschooling my son next year using AlphaAnywhere (or GT Anywhere, as we’re currently researching what makes most sense). Why pay so much for private school to babysit a bored kid when I’m more than capable of giving him the accelerated support he needs to flourish (as I have been anyway)? Thanks for your thoughtful articles. It’s comforting to find a community of similarly-minded folks.

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